Tuesday, January 14, 2014

这夜晚很平静却
一个突如其来的消息....闻言不由心如刀割

事隔了两年
我对你的面容已开始模糊
但过去的种种回忆依旧
我一直以为我真的很了解你
你的举动
态度,习惯

2年了
对。。。。什么都变了

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

2014.1.9

是我太空闲一直找吵架?
是我太空闲一直往负面想?
是我太空闲一直惹事?
是我太空闲动不动就生气?

最近都打不起精神
不对.....那是....不开心
真心的
打从心底的
觉得好多好多事还没处理整理
是心里的
是心里的

每天都该骂
做不对本来就该骂
或许我没有做对过
一直都没有


.........................................................

我也想好好谈谈
我也想找朋友谈谈
我的朋友全都很忙
他们说有事可以找
但是不好意思打扰
毕竟他们都有自己的生活
再不开心也只能这样

或许我该放下...

Wednesday, May 23, 2012


張愛玲寫給女人的49句話
1.就算眼前的這個男人,千般好,萬般好,處處是優點,他不愛你,這個缺點,你永遠改變不了 。


2.分手時,不哭。當然,不是要你一點都不哭。當著面,別哭,背地裏,往死裏哭。


3.一個人最大的缺點,不是自私、野蠻、任性,而是偏執的愛著一個不愛自己的人 。


4.不管你的條件有多差,總會有個人在愛你。不管你的條件有多好,也總有個人不愛你 。


5.抓住男人的不二法門,應該就是,永遠不要讓他滿足。


6.打扮的再美,穿的再昂貴,那只是個幌子,用善良做的外衣才是真的美。


7.如果我們責怪愛情傷害了我們,那請問,開始的時候是不是你點頭答應愛情的來臨。


8.能開口說出的委屈,便不是委屈。能離開的人,便不算是愛人。


9.所有愛著的人,愛過的人,都做著同一件事,犯賤。


10.心裏能裝著一些時間帶不走的淡淡悲傷,也是一種幸福。


11.人永遠是寂寞而自我的生物。無論多麼真誠的說出自己的愛,也總會有無法被理解的心情。


12.不卑不亢,從容優雅,面對一切。


13.一個人,如果沒空,那是因為他不想有空;一個人,如果走不開,那是因為不想走開;


一個人,對你藉口太多,那是因為不想在乎。


14.有的事情,沒法說明。你覺得值,就值,你覺得不值,別人說值,你也覺得不值。


15.要明白一個道理,男人可是輕易的喜歡一個人,但不會輕易的愛上一個人。


16.女人,戀愛的時候,就像,與世隔絕般。


17.在風平浪靜的日子裏,留點空間給自己,留點空間給對方,留點美好給距離 。


18.有的時候不要太計較,男人都有點粗枝大葉,忘了一件事,不代表他不愛你,別自己嚇自己。


19.女人,往往喜歡坦白心事,男人,則恰恰相反。


20.有時候,學會把失望當做一種收穫,因為有期望,才會有失望。


21.女人的心慈手軟,與男人的口是心非,成正比。


22.不要妄想試圖改變誰,因為誰也改變不了誰,只有,他願不願意為你改變。


23.張愛玲說過,時間,可以瞭解愛情,可以證明愛情,也可以推翻愛情。


24.自由可貴 , 但是,每天數以萬計的人,在用自由換取愛情。


25.你可以虛榮,因為,那是女人的天性,但,不要讓自己變成為別人增加虛榮的工具。


26.不要說,這世上沒個好男人了,不要去記恨那個拋棄你的人,畢竟曾經愛過你、疼過你,寬容會讓你更美麗。


27.不要去好奇,不要去關心,他的現任女友長得如何?身材如何?你這樣只是自尋煩惱罷了。


28.說過的話一定要做到,哪怕是很愚蠢的,也總比言而無信的好。


29.不要在你哭泣的時候,說氣話,下決定,你會後悔的。


30.他說,我累了,讓我冷靜一段時間,好嗎?你就說好,因為,他是來通知你的,不是來取得你同意的。


31.你清純就罷,你假裝清純,比醜還難看,明白嗎?


32.不是所有的努力都會成功,但是,不努力,就一定不會成功。


33.女孩子要自愛,不管你遇到多大的打擊,不管你遇到的情況多麼悲涼,藉故墮落,也是墮落;


越是不愛自己,越是沒人愛你。


34.美貌、智慧、 金錢,很多事,都是天生註定的,別想用你那嫉妒心,改變什麼。


35.小心眼、嫉妒心、 仇恨、 報復,女人的伎倆不過如此,你要施展沒關係,關係的是你別被人發現。


36.放好心態,失去的東西,不要悲傷,你就當,他本身就不屬於你。


37.儘量做個優雅的女子,千萬別做作,因為,做作的女人,不僅女人討厭,男人更討厭。


38.獨立,永遠。不管,感情還是金錢。


39.嗯 … 不要在哪幾個場合相信男人的話呢?床上、 他開心的時候、有求於你的時候、 犯錯的時候。


40.不要想盡辦法的向很多人炫耀,你有很多男朋友或者男性朋友。因為,別人不僅不會羡慕你,只會看輕你。


41.不要整天問,你愛我嗎?當你問的時候,他就不愛你了。


43.20歲以下,你相信偶像劇,那就算了。20歲以上,你還相信偶像劇,那就完了。


44.要知道,一個男人好與壞,不是看他花心還是專一,自古男人都花心,而是要看,有沒有控制力。


45.有沒有發現,往往刻骨銘心的愛戀。通常,沒有好結果。


46.煙、 酒,從古至今,被公認為兩大毒藥。而對,女人,愛情這一樣,足以致命。


47.勇敢的女人,永遠比懦弱的女人美麗。如果,你的愛人不愛你,我勸你還是勇敢點分離,好過,懦弱的糾纏。


48.善於妥協的女人,很寶貴。但是,只善於妥協的女人,很廉價。


49.不要做女強人,要做強女人。



Thursday, January 19, 2012

There was a Boy ‘n a Girl,
They were best friends for years ‘n years,
They could Talk for hours on the Phone ‘n text each other for days,
When They were Together;
Not a single Sad Thought could cross their Minds,
everything was Great, But One Day;

The Boy did not Answer any Call or Reply to any Text for a Day,
The Girl was worried that something was Wrong..
at night She couldn’t Sleep.., She was sitting in her Room Crying,
‘n It was then that She Realized how much He Means to Her..?

The next Morning;
She woke Up from a Phone call.., It was the Boy..

Boy : Hey..,
Girl : Im so glad that you Called Me, What happened to you yesterday ??
Boy : I was Busy
[ The GIRL Understood that;
Something was Wrong but could not Ask]

[silence]

Boy : You know..; We should Stop talking..!
Girl: What??.., But Why ??
Boy: I am Sorry, Bye..!

[He Disconnected the call, 'n She Felt as If Somebody
had Slammed the door on Her face]

Everything else Flashed in Her Mind,
Tears :’(
Cars running by Her..
Roof of some building..’n Sunset..
She couldn’t understand anything..
She started Feeling Lonely, Dejected, ‘n broken..:’(

That was the answer to everything! His words were pouncing on her..
Her heart wanted to jump out!

He was the One..! “Why..??”
She Screamed at the Top of her Voice;
Then She made up Her Mind to make a last Try to get Him Back..!

[She called Him Up]
Girl: hi…
Boy: Why are you calling Me?
Girl: I need to tell you Something..
Boy: Go Ahead.
Girl: I Just Wanted You to know one thing before we stopped talking!
Boy: Tell me..!

Girl: Are you All right?
[She broke off..!
She tried but may be he doesn't really Care about Her,
She Thought!
She wasn't His friend in the first Place...
Tears were slowly running Worst
She left the House with a Note..!

[5 hours later]

Phone Rang in the Boy’s Room,
It was the Girl’s Mum,
The girl was lying in the hospital, Got hit by a Car, :’(
The Boy rushed to the Hospital where She was.

She Opened Her Eyes with the Boy’s name..,
He took her Hand..

Boy: Im so Sorry Its all my fault..! But;
I promise when U get better I’ll make It up to You..

Girl: I wont get Better..
Boy: No..! No Don’t say that..
Girl: just tell me one thing Why did you do it?

Boy told her that He had a Heart problem ‘n
he did not want her to be worried;
‘n there was a risk that he could have Died..!

Boy: I did that because I…..I…..I Love you..?
Girl : I LOVE YOU TOO..?

‘n After That her heart Stopped Beating…:O
She Died..! :’(
The Boy died 10 mins later from a Heart Attack..:’(

He could not live with the thought that;
She died Because of Him.. :’(

-Moral (my own words)
If You Love Someone…;
Then Don’t Hold Back Your Feelings…
because Love is The Reason to Live..!
Love is Beautiful Live with This Felling ? ?

HERE'S 99 FACTS ABOUT GUYS

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

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